Luz Villamil, Deputy director of Cinema Akil and breast cancer activist
Born to a Palestinian father and Colombian mother, Luz Villamil had a rough childhood in Colombia, where gang violence was commonplace. In 1998, her father was kidnapped by guerilla outfit FARC and only returned three months later. Shortly after that, her brother went missing while on vacation, never to be heard from again. Grappling with the profound loss and to escape a life of uncertainty, the Villamil family moved to the UAE in 2002. Her true “new beginning” happened at 31, when she went through a divorce, got diagnosed with breast cancer, and lost her father – all in one year. Navigating this extraordinary time in her life has been an enlightening road to self-discovery, she says. “I finally got to know myself through my illness.
Cheryl Nankoo, Account manager
From a young age, Cheryl Nankoo always wanted a family through adoption. Over the years, she worked in many initiatives to help children in the UK, India, and Laos. In 2016, after volunteering in an orphanage in a Dalit village (the lowest caste) in India, she decided to adopt as a single mother. Nankoo was faced with many challenges, but she continued to research ways in which she could adopt. Two years later, and at the age of 42, Nankoo met and married her husband. After a miscarriage, a gynecologist tried to persuade Nankoo to try infertility treatment before adopting – advice that made Nankoo feel as if adoption is the “lesser choice.” The process made her and her husband realize how much they wanted to adopt. Finally, in 2020, they brought home Alpha from Sierra Leone. Daughter Aliyah followed in July this year. “That day, September 20, 2020, was the best day of my life, because I met my son Alpha for the first time. It was overwhelming, but as soon as we brought him home, I knew I wanted more children. People tend to focus on what adoptive parents miss through not giving birth, but they fail to see what parents miss out on by not adopting. There is no right or wrong way of starting a family – it’s all about love. Since adopting my kids, I am no longer trying to define my purpose. I now know my future dreams are related to my children and their home countries. My children have shown me the way.”